What I Hope For My 2013 Hair Story

I have a confession to make: I’ve been treating my hair like it’s still a
TWA, when in fact it’s not. It hasn’t been for a few months. And
although my practices adapted every once in awhile as it grew longer, I
didn’t include some potentially crucial ones to make sure my hair wasn’t
breaking faster than it was growing.

I want to do a lot of things this year. A lot. My new year hair resolution as I mentioned in a previous post was to retain my hair length. While having Fro away for a month, I realised that I wasn’t being honest with myself or my hair. And although I came to a point last year where I was happy with my routine, I wasn’t really doing anything to really to keep track of and maximise my hair length. It wasn’t a goal, but this year it is and I’m planning on taking it seriously. Not hair Nazi seriously, but seriously enough to change my routine to be one that leads to length retention. As usual, I read a lot of articles and tips on how to retain length and will be sharing some of those words of wisdom.

Things I’d like to slowly include into my routine:

  • Finger detangle my hair before combing it on wash day
  • Wash my hair in sections
  • Trim my hair every six months
  • Try twisting my hair for a week or more at a time and rock a twist out for a week, basically wear my hair in a free fro less to reduce breakage. I’ve seen some gorgeous twist styles and I’d like to at least give it a go
  • Care for my ends by making sure to seal them with my butter
  • Check my hair length every four months. It’s currently 8″
  • Add avocado oil to my shampoos again
  • Co-wash more often, especially in winter
  • Use a creamier lotion type product to smooth onto my hair. I’ve found that my butter is sometimes a bit too hard for some of the styles I want to do

I’m also officially a product whore. For the past few months I’ve been jumping from one brand to another in the hopes of finding the holy grail of…well everything. Not that I’m not happy with what my core products do, but call me curious. And now I have a whole bunch of half empty shampoos, full conditioners and unopened bottles that I really need to either give away or actually find a way of using. This year I’m also hoping to straighten my hair for the first time since chopping it to natural. I said it last year too but I chickened out, and I’m still curious to see how it would look.

I’m glad to have my fro back and there’s so much I want to do with it, I’m not even sure I’ve covered everything in this post! The most daunting bit is adapting my routine. It’s taken me awhile to get to this place but I think it’s necessary for me to try some new things as my goal is different now. Fingers crossed!



  1. May 15, 2013 / 12:21 am

    Brief update: I've managed to begin to get Diva's breakage to be less of a problem. I'm so proud of her and me especially because I had to have patience which is hard to have for a Taurus like me. I've also finally dusted my hair and did my first updo that wasn't a sock bun!I'm learning what products Diva likes and which ones she doesn't. I feel like I'm coming to a wonderfulplace of contentment with Diva's progress.

    • May 31, 2013 / 1:46 pm

      That's great to hear! What have you done differently? I've had a bit of a tiff with Fro and not quite sure how to move forward with it yet :s

  2. Anonymous
    April 16, 2013 / 2:39 pm

    hi did u dye ur hair

    • May 31, 2013 / 1:44 pm

      I did, I used Garnier Nutrisses's 7.3 dye

  3. February 2, 2013 / 1:15 pm

    I too am a product whore. I have various brands, that do various things. My main goal is to stop the breakage I'm dealing with. I can't tell you how many times Ive hair get stuck in my shower drain. Another thing I would like to do is "be in a relationship" with my hair. You know: caress my hair, talk lovingly to it and appreciate it for what it is. I think that will help ne deal with the negative feelings Ive always had with Diva (that's what I call my hair).

    • February 3, 2013 / 6:02 am

      LOL! Your comment cracked me up! Sounds like your hair and mine are twins, Diva sounds like the perfect name. It sounds crazy to some people but the relationship with hair things is soooo real! I have fights with my hair, less now than before but still. We're both stubborn and know what we want and are unimpressed when we don't get it so it's key to come to some place where you understand it and love it regardless. Once you do that, it makes such a difference 😉

  4. Anonymous
    February 1, 2013 / 2:47 pm

    I think I need to make changes too in order for me to retain length. I've been stuck at 5" for the past 3 months. Thanx for the inspiratio Aisha. I'm looking forward to retaining at least 4" by december.

    • February 3, 2013 / 5:59 am

      And good for you for also realising you need to change things! I've noticed it's one of the hardest things to do because you get so used to certain products, certain routines and ways of doing things that even if something's not working anymore, you kind of feel stuck in it. So here's to us for making much needed changes!

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